It’s not very often I write discussion posts, mainly because I get stuck
for ideas or topics. Recently though, something has been really bugging me and
I felt the need to have a bit of a rant. After reading a particular book
recently, I began to wonder about conversation/ pet names. This post is mostly
aimed at New Adult fiction, as I have been noticing things more and more since
the genre emerged. However, the things I have problems with are also done in
Young Adult fiction and probably adult, although I don’t read much of that.
The thing that has been driving me mad is the use of ‘baby’. Is this how
people actually talk in relationships? I have had my fair share of
relationships and not once have I had someone call me ‘baby’ nor have I ever
called anyone ‘baby’. Personally, I would much rather someone use my actual
name than use a pet name, especially this one. I know that some people must do
this but it seems to be happening far too often for my liking in NA and YA
books. Maybe it’s just the books I’ve been reading lately, I don’t know, but it
seems to be EVERYWHERE.
Now, I’m not saying I hate it completely but I feel that it is extremely
overused. I don’t mind the occasional use but to call someone ‘baby’ every
single time they have a conversation… too much? I know I’m not alone in
thinking that it can affect that way in which you read a book. While I did love
the book in question, the use of this particular word did make me like it less
than I would have if it hadn’t been used.
I’m sure there are other pet names which other people cannot stand. Is ‘baby’
one of them for you or do you not mind it being used so much in fiction? I’d
love to hear your thoughts on the topic whether you agree with me or disagree.
I agree – I think I would want to lamp someone if they called me baby ;-)
ReplyDeleteI totally agree. I hate it in books and IRL.
ReplyDeleteme and my boyfriend do actually use baby… not all the time, not even every day… just occasionally. and we both use it, not just him. I don't mind it at all, unless its over used which I've noticed it can be in books!
ReplyDeleteI HATE the word Babe though and told him if he EVER tries to call me it I will not refrain from slapping him :P